“Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win.” ~ Sun Tzu Imagine you’re at a New Year’s Eve party. Everyone gathers into a circle, and one by one, they answer the question, “What are your goals for next year?” The answers fly in enthusiastically: “I’m going to lose 100 pounds!”“You’ll find me at the gym, five days a week!”“I will w