Sex and relationships for disabled people can give rise to unspoken questions and sensitivities - often among the able bodied. But amid the awkwardness there is humour. The following is an edited version of a monologue by Mik Scarlet, who broke his back when he was a teenager. Like most people who were born disabled, as I was, you grow up and you're kind of cool with it. I was born with a bit of a
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