Rails 3 - Best way to handle nested resource queries in your controllers?

If there's one thing I've learned about Rails 3 is if I'm having a hard time doing something, I'm probably doing it wrong. So I'm looking for help. I have a few models which are related in a many to many relationship. I am able to create the associations in the models without a problem. My problem lies in how to build the controllers to work with these relationships. I'll try and give an example i

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